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Saturday, June 16, 2007

Today woke up very early. I went to Neko-Chan house to watch "28 weeks later"! I waited below her house for 30 mins & suddenly heavy rained came n drained me at the bus-stop. I was a bit pissed off because I called her alot times and msged her. She was sleeping like a pig! She came down with umbrella & bought Mac's breakfast. The movie was very jialat. The quality was bad. Story line not bad. After watching movie, I taught her how to use blog & etc.

We had very sweet moment together telling each other mushy stuffs. Lolx. I enjoying seeing her changing Bit Bit, her rabbit. It was very cute action of hers. We took a few photos together. Posing a lot of stupid things. After her house, we went to meet Fangting, to get fish tank! Took mrt down & walked quite a long distance at Tampiness. I was running late for church & Neko-Chan was running late for her mum's appointment to shop. We took taxi downn to Novena then to Toa Payoh. I thought that she had to carry heavy tank for shopping so I decided to carry for her to my church & home. A kiss & a hug & sent her off.

Church was extreme boring but lively with stupid Edwin doing stupid things. I enjoyed the moment with my members talking cock. Neko-Chan msged me a few sweet things. She msged me: " Lolx. Hahas. I call you later, you be shocked." I decided to call her. Guess what!?! She was laughing and saying, "I am with my ex eating dinner & go home. He came to fetch me & my mum home. I eat liaox go home." WTF!?! It shocked me and pissed the hell out of me! They went out together without telling me. Worst of all SOLO TOGETHER!?! Am I invisible or what!?! Her ex had a GF, n Neko-Chan had me! I pissed off and asked her after eating please go home.

Guess what!?! I called again. She said:"I am going Pasir Ris to shop with him." WTF!?! This time I was totally pissed out of my life! I asked her to go home immediately. She replied:"NO! I will go home at 10pm!" is really WTF?!? Am I dead or what? Fancy going with Ex-BF and went shopping! I was pissed & scolded her. I decided to go down to her house to settle this! I took bus and effort to go & find her. I waited 1hr45mins for her! Seeing her, walking out of her Ex-bf's car. WTF WTF WTF WTF WTF!!! I am her boyfriend. I waited for her. But she is with another guy! REALLY FUCK! I STILL carry her bloody heavy fish tank home despite my body condition that I went through operation, I cant carry heavy thing.

I called her and msged her but she din reply or answer! I settled with her. That time, my lungs are in pain. My heart is in pain. Luckily I controlled myself. For those who knew me, knew that I went through lung operation before. I cant be angry and be pissed off. If not, my lungs will collapse. I will die! She speak alot stuffs and so on! I listened because I cant even breathe. I was catching my breath.

She said:"I am just going out with a friend. I have no feelings for him. I only have him as my good guy friend. We did not do anything wrong. We just go eat and shop together. BUT shop means we walk and talk together. We laugh and joke about our past times." WTF!?! I listened to this. I told her 1 thing. "DO YOU WANT SEE ME TO HAVE SUCH GOOD GAL FRIEND?" She said," Now u said this, I realised I in the wrong sorry"

Guys out there listen to this.
1) Do you want to see your gf contact their ex?
2) DO you want to see your gf walk out of her ex car?
3) Do you feel hurt & cheated when your gf go out with her ex?
4) Do you feel jealous when your gf go out with ANOTHER GUY SOLO?
5) Do you feel angry when your gf go out with ANOTHER GUY SOLO?
6) Wont you feel that you are less important in your gf's heart compare to her ex.
7) Imagine you waited 1hr45mins being angry and worry, but your gf die also wont come back b4 10pm because she want to accompany him & feel bad to leave just like that.
8) Will you feel that your gf dont cherish you?
9) Will you feel that your gf dont love you or even care about you?
10) For your body condition like mine, you cant carry heavy things. But you happily helped your gf despite the tiredness. BUT YOUR GF SOLO DATE WITH ANOTHER GUY!?!
11) DO you wish to see or hear your gf to laugh & joke wif her ex about their past?

Girls out there listen to this.

1) Do you want to see your bf contact their ex?
2) DO you want to see your bf walk out of his ex car?
3) Do you feel hurt & cheated when your bf go out with his ex?
4) Do you feel jealous when your bf go out with ANOTHER GAL SOLO?
5) Do you feel angry when your bf go out with ANOTHER GAL SOLO?
6) Wont you feel that you are less important in your bf's heart compare to his ex.
7) Imagine you waited 1hr45mins being angry and worry, but your bf die also wont come back b4 10pm because he want to accompany her & feel bad to leave just like that.
8) Will you feel that your bf dont cherish you?
9) Will you feel that your bf dont love you or even care about you?
10) For your body condition like mine, you cant carry heavy things. But you happily helped your bf despite the tiredness. BUT YOUR BF SOLO DATE WITH ANOTHER GAL!?!
11) Do you wish to see or hear your bf to laugh or joke wif his ex about their past?

There are certain Yes or No to relationship. There are certain Can or Cannot to relationship. You may think yes, I can go out with my ex. But hows your partner think? Yes you can contact your ex, but CANNNOT go out solo. Nobody wish to see their partern go out SOLO wif he/her EX. Moreever, Neko-Chan ex has a GF! He still have the cheek to ask my gf out? What if his gf did the same to him, how will he feel? He comes and ask my gf out, what if his gf ex ask her out. How will he feel? He tried to ask Neko-Chan this:" Are you happy with him?" Neko-Chan replied:" YES,OF COURSE!" Wtf? Is he in the position to ask how I treat her? Is he trying to tackle her back?

I was so pissed off so badly because I dont want to see my gf going out SOLO with another guy. SOLO DATE will cause your partner to feel JEALOUS, UNHAPPY, MISUNDERSTOOD, HURT, CHEAT & etc... You may think Yes, my partner can solo date. I can solo date too! Such thinking will make a relationship sour! It will spoil the relationship and make it worst. People, you must think about this: Is SOLO DATE important? Is SOLO DATE worth to make your relationship SOUR!?! If you think NO! Then you need to get rid of this bad habit to SOLO date with other people. Your relationship is more important. You need to sarcrifice for this relationship.

You can keep a healthy friend ship by just msging, calling, msn. I had a very good girl friend - CAI YUN. I knew her for 6 yrs. I had never go out SOLO with her. I msg her and call her and msn. This still keep our relationship healthy & good. Good friends dont have to meet, when you need them they will be there for you. Just like Cai Yun, I need her, she will be there to talk to me.

So in conclusion, Neko-Chan promised not to SOLO DATE again. I promised not to throw temper & be pissed off and neglect my health. We both will compromise each other. SOLO DATE with anyone is UNHEALTHY and will spoil your relationship! SO DO NOT SOLO DATE or AFTER DOING, YOU TELL YOUR PARTNER. I got permission from Neko-Chan to post our fights because I hope people can learn 1 or 2 things from us. We both dare to admit wrong, and change for this relationship. Thus we dare to post it. God Bless!

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