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Friday, July 13, 2007

The Unfair Treatments in Relationships:

Recently I heard a lot of unfair treatments in relationships among the people around me. So what's that all about? Usually it all happens on the girls. Straight to the point, for e.g.

1) The boyfriend does not allow the girl to go chalet without him, but the boyfriend wants to go to chalet without the girl & wants to stay overnight.
2) The boyfriend does not allow the girl to chat with guys, but the boyfriend chats with girls all night.
3) The boyfriend does not allow the girl to go home late but he, himself stays up late at nitex.
4) The boyfriend does not allow guys to add the girl in friendster but he, himself piles up girls' contacts in friendster.
5) The boyfriend does not allow the girl to drink & smoke but he hangs out at pubs, drinking & smoking.

All these scenarios portrayed here are common unfair treatment that we can see it everyday around us. If you are the boyfriend, I think you totally SUCK! Man, you are a fucking low-class creature & a fucking big time JERK. We as guys, should hold on our words. If we do not allow our girlfriends to do somethings, we should not do. We can't abuse our authority in the relationships. We must impose fair treatments to our partners. We can't be that selfish asking our partner not to do, but we are continuing doing the things ourselves. Remember this, guys out there. Don't be a JERK that eat your own words. If you ask your girlfriend not to do something, you, yourself don't do, if not you are not suitable to have balls down your part.

Cold Wars in Relationships:

Cold Wars are wars that fight using words. But in a relationship cold wars are defined as not contacting or keeping a distance from your partner. It is the stage when you don't feel like talking to your partner. What causes this? There are many reasons, it can be big or small, serious or maybe nothing serious at all? Many times in relationships, we don't agree or compromise to our partner. This causes unhappiness between us & our partners. This leads to Cold Wars. A lot of times are due to our actions, words used or promises that we break that causes cold wars. But there are times which are due to situation problems that arise. For e.g.

Sometimes I am late for dates with Neko-Chan because the bus does not come, I break my promises. Neko-Chan will angry & begin Cold Wars with me. She will ignore me & pull a long face. Sometimes Neko-Chan pisses me off because things which I said can't get into her head. That's will be the time I will just isolate myself & will not care about her.

Cold wars are very painful. You don't wish to hurt your love ones but you don't wish to give in & surrender. Thus such things can drag on for days. It is very torturing for the mental. Once it backfires, both of you will be tired & do not wish to move on in the relationships. It migh cause a BREAK UP. Hence, I once advise people that if can avoid, don't choose a Cold War. It is cruel & painful!

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